Excessive Eye Contact
- Notice gaze held longer than normal
- Catch faces scanned methodically
- Watch eyes hunting for your reactions
- Treat sustained staring as data collection
Micro-Observation
- Spot attention on hands, posture, and tone
- Notice eyes flicking to objects you touch
- Catch someone tracking your patterns
- Register interest in small irrelevant details
Testing Questions
- Flag indirect or layered questions
- Notice rephrasing aimed at consistency
- Watch for pushing on vague answers
- Recognize probes disguised as curiosity
Behavior Mirroring
- Catch matched posture, tone, or pace
- Notice energy subtly synced to yours
- Spot rapport built to extract information
- Treat sudden mirroring as a tactic
Mental Note-Taking
- Notice glances away while processing
- Watch for writing or device use
- Mark recall of trivial details
- Register information being banked
Social Probing
- Flag questions about your circle and habits
- Notice fishing for emotional reactions
- Catch interest in your locations and routines
- Recognize a profile built through small talk
Where It Happens
- Expect it in meetings and negotiations
- Stay alert in social settings
- Guard value and weakness at work
- Vary patterns in transit and public spaces
Stay Unreadable
- Hold an even baseline with no spikes
- Randomize routines, routes, and responses
- Limit what you disclose to anyone
- Give measured answers, never reflexive ones