The Play
- Know the second location is anywhere after contact.
- Watch for vans, stairwells, alleys, private rooms.
- Recognize the transfer favors the attacker.
- Treat first contact as the decision point.
Why It Escalates
- Isolation removes the eyes that protect you.
- Doors, vehicles, and numbers give them control.
- Extra time lets them intimidate and reposition.
- Walls and distance conceal what happens next.
Their Scripts
- Distrust 'come with me for a minute.'
- Reject 'let's talk somewhere private.'
- Ignore claims a friend waits elsewhere.
- Refuse to step behind any building.
Pre-Transfer Signs
- Note urgency with no clear reason.
- Feel for pressure to leave public view.
- Watch one engage while another flanks.
- Spot an open door or blocked path nearby.
Deny the Transfer
- Plant your feet and stop moving with them.
- Angle out to break their line.
- Go loud: 'Back off.' 'Call police.'
- Move toward stores, lobbies, and crowds.
Pick Direction
- Head toward occupied, well-lit areas.
- In a lot, move between rows to people.
- Never go deeper into isolation.
- Aim at witnesses and a safe destination.